My Mum Is 55 and I'm 34—We'd Both Wear These Party Dresses

Highlighted hair, a penchant for espresso martinis, mitochondrial DNA; these are just a few of the many things my mother and I share. I spent my formative years in what felt like the midst of a permanent eye roll when people would ask if we were sisters (something which, as I get older, we're asked less and less—I'll try not to dwell on that fact). The point I'm trying to make while procrastinating? We're similar—very similar—in looks and taste, and that extends to our wardrobes. 

Almost every time I go to buy something, I pause, send a quick snap to my mum and ask, "Do you already have this?" More often than not, if she doesn't have the exact piece, she'll have something similar. And vice versa. Off the top of my head, items we've overlapped on include a pair of Dune boots, a green slip skirt from Zara, earrings from Missoma, a jumper from Other Stories and a dress from AllSaints. "It's a witchy connection in us," she tells me, and honestly, I find it hard to argue with that. 

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The nuances of our relationship aside, there was a funny moment last week when we both realised we'd been looking at the same dress for a festive family gathering. "I have it in my basket right now!" my mum exclaimed down the phone. I don't mind sharing fashion sense with my 54-year-old mum—she has excellent taste. So while we were on the subject of dresses, I thought it would be fun to find out which she loves to wear the most and which would overlap with my own sartorial preferences. Unsurprisingly, there were a few we agreed upon. 

Scroll on to see the best party dresses for women over 50, as told by my mum, which I have every intent on borrowing from her soon. 

1. Jewel-Tone Satin

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You know the Zara skirt we both own? It's a gorgeous satin midi in the most decadent shade of emerald. This combination of liquid shine and a rich hue seems to appease us both, for when she saw me wearing a burgundy satin midi dress for our party outfit shoot, she immediately asked to borrow it (and the matching blazer) for her work Christmas party. "That colour really suits our skintones," she says. 

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2. Lingerie-Inspired

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"I've always loved sheer fabrics, be it a blouse under a blazer or a lace panel on a dress, and I'm definitely not going to stop wearing them any time soon," says my mum. And rightly so! Lingerie-inspired dresses are all over the market this season and can (and should!) be embraced by all ages.

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3. LBDs With a Twist

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"I worked as a hairdresser for years, and my uniform was to wear all black. Even though I've been out of the industry for over two decades, I still look for black dresses with a point of difference to stop them from feeling too 'worky.'" Handily, there are plenty of elevated black dresses with cool cutouts, statement fringing, pretty bows, jacquard finishes and striking silhouettes out there that are totally ageless in their appeal. 

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4. Long-Sleeve

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"My love of long-sleeve dresses has nothing to do with an outdated feeling of having to cover up—I just think they look really, really chic," says my mum. And I agree; I have no issue with my arms, but I love the look and feel of wearing long sleeves, particularly with mini hemlines for a sophisticated counterbalance. 

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5. Sumptous Velvet

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Like satin, there's something about velvet that always attracts both my mum and me to it. We both own velvet suits (hers is smoke, mine is navy), so naturally, our adoration also extends to dresses. "There's just something that feels so luxurious about velvet. It helps that it never goes out of style, either. Maxine, you know that green velvet dress you have? Can you take that home with you at Christmas?"

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6. Classic Sparkle 

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Neither my mum nor I wear a lot of sparkle ordinarily, but when party season rolls around, we're like moths to a flame. "Sequins aren't a huge part of my wardrobe, but the pieces I do own and love always have a silver or gold colour to them. Personally, I'm not into bright colours, so I stick to metallics, which always look more sparkly and fabulous anyway." 

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Maxine Eggenberger
Deputy Editor

Maxine Eggenberger isBest Knockoff Luxury Clothing UK’s deputy editor and has over thirteen years of experience in fashion journalism. She been creating engaging and elevated style content specifically forBest Knockoff Luxury Clothing UK since 2018, covering runway reports, emerging trends, long-form features, self-styled shopping stories and columns, including her edit of the best new-in buys. She ensures the highest editorial standards are met across the site, leads the editorial team in their SEO strategy and keyword planning, works closely with the beauty team on content initiatives, represents the brand at industry events, and regularly contributes to social media, including her ownBest Knockoff Luxury Clothing UK TikTok franchise, French Style Fridays. Previously, Maxine appeared on ITV's This Morning in her own fashion segment and has interviewed countless celebrities—everyone from Victoria Beckham to Oscar winner Lupita Nyong’o.

Prior toBest Knockoff Luxury Clothing UK, Maxine’s career began when, after completing her first-ever internship at Look magazine, she was offered a position on the brand's fashion desk. She accepted, leaving university a year early in the process. Her passion and natural talent for writing and styling meant she swiftly rose through the ranks to become the title's fashion news and commercial content editor, with a stint as InStyle.co.uk’s fashion and beauty writer along the way. She later served as Look’s acting Editor in Chief, overseeing both print and digital, before embarking on a successful freelance career, working with Grazia, The Pool, and Marie Claire amongst others.

Maxine is based remotely from her countryside home near Edinburgh where she spends her downtime renovating her house, walking her dogs, hosting friends and trying to master the art of making Old Fashioned cocktails.