I'd Scream If Someone Wore Any of These 6 Things to My Wedding

Look, my wedding is still years away, but I’m already preparing my friends and family for the massive celebration that is to come. I am the definition of a fashion girl, so naturally, I'm sure I'll have something to say about what guests wear to my special day. To simplify things, I’m more specific about what I’d prefer that they don’t wear.
Recently, I attended a wedding as a plus-one, and I had never met the bride before, so as I selected my dress, I was very thoughtful about what I chose, hoping not to offend anyone. While I was getting ready for the wedding, I decided to film a video about the rules that I follow as a wedding guest, and it went viral with over 300,000 people expressing that they agreed with me.
Before I get into my wedding guest rules, I must mention this disclaimer: If you’re unsure and you have a close enough relationship with the couple to text them, I’d just snap a photo of your dress and ask them what they think. If you don’t know them well enough to send that text, stay on the safe side and follow these rules. My wedding still isn’t happening anytime soon, but if you’re attending, know that I’d scream at you if you wore one of these six things.
Skip: Massive Cutouts
Shop: A Subtle Glimpse of Skin
I still haven't forgotten the dress Kendall Jenner wore that broke the internet. Her dress was amazing, but there were so many cutouts and the internet got into a heated debate. Was it appropriate for her to wear that dress to a wedding? My opinion is that weddings are not the best time for a dress that has a ton of massive cutouts. One of my friends recently asked guests specifically not to wear any cutouts, since she felt it was inappropriate for the occasion. Save that cutout dress for your next trip with your besties.
Skip: Plunging Necklines
Shop: Modest Yet Flattering Cuts
Plunging necklines make for a very fun and bold fashion statement, but I'm not sure the couple's older family members will be in tune with that trend. There are so many dresses that can flatter your bust without showing way too much. Look for sweetheart necklines or bustier-style tops if that's an area you'd like to complement while still being modest.
Skip: Red
Shop: This Season's Color Palette
One of the most controversial debates of all is whether or not red is appropriate for a wedding day. I say unless you know the couple personally and have gotten their permission, skip the bold shade of red. In some cultures, red is what the bride wears, and since you don't want to steal the show from her, I say skip the red and wear one of the season's hottest colorways instead. This year, I'd try to play around with green or pink.
Skip: Minidresses
Shop: Midi Never Fails
Minidresses are a great option for an event that lists the dress code as cocktail attire, but think of a wedding as your opportunity to pick out something that has a longer silhouette. Midi- and maxi-length dresses are so flattering and the perfect attire for a wedding guest. Knee-length is also an appropriate length.
Skip: Denim Anything
Shop: Formal Trousers or a Jumpsuit
It might be a habit for you to grab a denim jacket before attending a wedding, but I suggest otherwise. It should go without saying, but jeans are an absolute no-no. You won't regret wearing a pantsuit if you're looking to dance all night.
Skip: Light Colors That Could Be Confused for White
Shop: Florals
I attended a wedding once, and one of the guests was wearing a champagne gown. I mistakenly thought she was the bride and was shocked to learn otherwise. If you're attending a wedding where the couple traditionally wears white, steer very clear of any sort of champagne colorway. Some very light pinks could also be confused for white in photos, so keep that in mind as well.
This post was originally published at an earlier date and has since been updated.

Sierra Mayhew is a fashion editor atBest Knockoff Luxury Clothing , bringing a decade of industry experience to the editorial team. Since joining in 2021, she has made her mark by blending luxury and accessible fashion, decoding runway trends, and curating must-have shopping lists. Before joiningBest Knockoff Luxury Clothing , Sierra sharpened her skills at Harper's Bazaar and Elle, with bylines in Bazaar.com and collaborated with iconic brands such as Gucci and Ferragamo. A graduate of the University of Notre Dame, Sierra translates editorial expertise into viral social content, making fashion engaging for a new generation. Her unique perspective is rooted in her love for travel, music, and discovering the hidden gems that make New York City a constant source of inspiration.
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