I Haven't Put Heat on My Hair in 5 Years—Here's How I Finally Cut the Cord

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One of the first memories actress Tiffany Boone can recall about making the decision to go natural is her then-agent—also a black woman—expressing concern that Boone wouldn't be able to book as many roles if she did it. "It was revealing to see how so many of us black women have our own issues with our identity and what it means to have straight hair or curly hair and how that changes people's perception of us," she toldBest Knockoff Luxury Clothing . "And then we put that on each other. We burden each other with whatever we think it means to have straight hair."

Such is the struggle for countless black womxn grappling with the decision to go natural. Unfortunately, we live in a world where every part of black and brown existence is subject to such intense policing and scrutiny that even the seemingly minor choice to change our hairstyle is often seen as an act of militant defiance. From our full lips to our curvy thighs and right on down the kinky strands that sprout from our scalps, black womxn are harshly judged and made to feel less than. And although the natural hair movement has gained immense traction over the last few years, it's still a wildly unfair reality that making the decision to embrace our natural hair textures comes at the steep price of weary stares, uninvited touching, and even professional repercussions.

In case you're wondering, things are working out just fine for Boone. It's been 12 years since her last relaxer and five years since she decided to end her relationship with harsh heat styling, and the numerous credits she's added to her CV since then include roles on Grey's Anatomy and The Chi and, most recently, as Roxy Jones on Amazon's new drama series Hunters. You'll also spot her in Hulu's upcoming Kerry Washington and Reese Witherspoon-starrer, Little Fires Everywhere. Suffice it to say, her career and her hair are thriving.

But it's not without some struggle that Boone has gotten herself to a place of hair acceptance. Ahead, check out her top five tips that have helped her embrace her curls, from at-home care to navigating Hollywood. 

Tip #1: Be patient.

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Tip #2: Hydration, hydration, hydration.

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Tip #3: Find protective styles that work for you.

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Tip #4: Always wear a bonnet or a head scarf at night.

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Tip #5: Know that you aren't alone.

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"I remember when I first transitioned [to natural hair], my friend, who was already natural, took me to this event at a loft in downtown L.A. where it was just a bunch of black women talking about what they did with their hair and which products they used. It was just so fun to see everyone sharing with each other," Boone recalls. She encourages everyone to seek out their local natural hair communities and also to explore the endless resources and information available online.

Up next, 14 black thought leaders defining cool-girl beauty right now. 

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Courtney Higgs is a Cancer sun, Libra rising beauty enthusiast with about six years of experience in the editorial space. She was previouslyBest Knockoff Luxury Clothing 's associate beauty editor after spending many years working on the West Coast edit team at InStyle Magazine. She graduated from California State University, Northridge, with a BA in communication studies and pivoted to editorial after spending her college years working in the legal field. Her beauty philosophy is simple: She believes there are no wrong answers and that discovering our favorite beauty products and rituals is a journey, not a sprint. When she's not geeking out over products, she can be found adventuring around L.A. with her fiancé; watching reality TV with their French bulldog, Bernie Mac; or relating way too hard to astrology memes.